5
comity(noun, favor, respect, kindness, consideration)
5
courtliness(noun, favor, respect, class, kindness)
5
decorum(polite, refinement, elegance, sophistication, manners)
5
delicacy(noun, control, style, understanding, taste)
5
diplomacy(noun, control, understanding, care, head)
5
discernment(noun, control, understanding, taste, care)
4
charm(noun, courtesy, refinement, elegance, sophistication)
4
adroitness(noun, control, understanding, care, head)
4
affability(noun, favor, respect, class, kindness)
4
amenity(noun, control, understanding, care, head)
4
complaisance(noun, favor, respect, kindness, consideration)
4
elegancy(noun, style, class, beautiful, courtesy)
4
familiarity(noun, action, understanding, favor, respect)
4
felicity(noun, courtesy, refinement, elegance, sophistication)
4
respect(noun, favor, kindness, consideration, courtesy)
4
suaveness(noun, courtesy, refinement, sophistication)
4
tastefulness(noun, class, courtesy, refinement, elegance)
3
amiability(noun, favor, respect, kindness, consideration)
3
courteousness(noun, favor, respect, kindness, consideration)
3
decency
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